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The 5 Most Important Things to Do For An Interview That You’ve Never Heard

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Nervousness. Butterflies. Fear. Excitement. More nervousness. More excitement. A clearing of the throat. A drink of water. You review your notes one last time.

And now it’s time.

We’ve all been through job interviews of various forms: in person, over the phone, group interviews, second interviews, third interviews, fourth interviews… They’re all relatively stressful. Most of y’all have probably heard tips on interviewing well – eye contact, clear speech, show up early, etc… – but I’d like to suggest some other things outside the box to improve your interview.

1. Get a haircut! Interviews are so much better when we feel confident in them. Who doesn’t feel amazing after a suave or sexy haircut?

2. Eat an apple (before). Apples restore the pH balance of the throat and help keep the vocal chords clean and smooth for all of that confident communicating you’ll be doing in your interview.

3. Sing your favorite song loudly in the car on your way to the interview. Yes, seriously. Mood and attitude will play major factors in how well the interview goes – so have some fun and de-stress yourself!

4. Smile. Do you really want this job? Are you sure? Well, don’t just talk about it – show it!

5. Make your interviewer smile. As a person who manages upwards of 50 employees, I can tell you that I want people on my team who are pleasant and fun to be around and whose happiness is contagious to the team. A sense of humor and genuine enjoyment of others goes very far with most future bosses.

What do you think? Are there a few more that I missed?

 

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5 Ways To Help You Become Perfect

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Improvement is important, especially to those of us who genuinely care about what we do for our occupation. If you’re anything like me, you may feel restless or uncomfortable when you are unsure of how to improve in your current role. Here are some suggestions:

1. Practice does not make perfect…but perfect practice does  Anders Ericsson, a Swedish psychologist, has spent much of his research time around the idea of improvement and practice. At one point, Ericsson looked at figure skaters and found that – even though a group of figure skaters were all on the ice for the same amount of time – the skaters who obsessed over getting better were the ones who distinguished themselves. Malcolm Gladwell also has conducted a fair amount of research in this area, asserting in his book “Outliers” that people can reach a level of mastery in a skill once they have spent 10,000 hours of focused time on a certain topic. In other words… don’t just practice… but pratice focused.

2. Spent time around others better than you  Do you think Michael Jordan learned much practicing wih the third-string bench-players? Absolutely not. As the old proverb states, “iron sharpens iron.” It is absolutely necessary to be around people who push to become a better person.

3. Find a mentor  Everyone needs a coach, a mentor, and a wise soul to help them along. Michael Jordan grew from having Phil Jackson next to him. Plato, one of the most brilliant minds the world has ever seen, was mentored by Socrates, an equally brilliant person. You get the picture. It helps enormously to have someone alongside you who has been through your experience in some way and who can provide guidance.

4. Raise the bar  “Ok” is ok for a lot of people. However, if you really want to be truly special and extraordinary, ok must no longer be ok. Your new standard needs to be one that is unrelenting, uncompromising, and never easily satisfied. When we settle, we lower our own bar. Stay strong, expect the extraordinary of yourself, and set out to be the example for everyone else to follow! In the words of Will Ferrell in Talladega Nights: If you’re not first, you’re last!

5. Be confident  After all is said and done, confidence is an essential element to a person that kicks butt. Peggy Klaus’ book “Brag! The Art of Tooting Your Own Horn Without Blowing It” is a great starting point and an easy read. If you’ve got it going on, stand tall and proud, letting others see that you’re the real deal. Own your future success now and let people know that you are strong – without being obnoxious or isolating.

What else ya got?

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